Parenting resources with sources · Ages 0–18

Library

30 books, classic readings, practical resources and guidelines, with original sources and check records. Related research appears on resource and age-stage pages.
Guideline Evidence: Official guideline Ages 0–4
Nurturing Care Framework for Early Childhood Development

The international framework for early childhood. It names five components of nurturing care - good health, adequate nutrition, safety and security, responsive caregiving and opportunities for early learning.

WHO, UNICEF, World Bank Group2018
Guideline Evidence: Official guideline Ages 0–18
Family Media Plan

An online tool from the American Academy of Pediatrics for agreeing screen and device rules as a family.

American Academy of Pediatricsupdated regularly
Guideline Evidence: Official guideline Ages 0–6
Media and Young Minds (AAP policy statement)

Under 18 months, avoid screen media other than video chatting. From 18 to 24 months, choose high-quality programmes and watch together. From 2 to 5 years, limit to 1 hour a day of high-quality programmes.

AAP Council on Communications and Media, Pediatrics2016
Guideline Evidence: Official guideline 0–12 months
How to Keep Your Sleeping Baby Safe: AAP Policy Explained

Place babies on their back, on a firm flat surface of their own, with no soft objects, to lower the risk of sleep-related infant death.

American Academy of Pediatrics2022
Guideline Evidence: Official guideline Ages 0–18
Effective Discipline to Raise Healthy Children (AAP clinical report)

The AAP advises against spanking, hitting, slapping, threatening, insulting or shaming children, and recommends teaching good behaviour through healthy forms of discipline instead.

American Academy of Pediatrics; Sege & Siegel, Pediatrics2018
Practical resource Evidence: Expert opinion Ages 0–6
Serve and return: noticing and responding to your child

A university explainer about the back-and-forth between a young child and a caring adult: notice a look, sound or gesture, respond, and leave room for the child to respond again.

Center on the Developing Child at Harvard UniversityUndated concept page
Practical resource Evidence: Expert opinion Ages 0–6
Vroom: small interactions in everyday moments

Free activity tips that fit into meals, getting dressed, travel and other shared moments, with brief explanations of the ideas behind them.

Bezos Family FoundationOngoing activity collection
Guideline Evidence: Official guideline 2 months–6 years
CDC's Developmental Milestones (Learn the Signs. Act Early.)

Checklists of what most children can do at 12 ages from 2 months to 5 years, covering social, language, thinking and movement skills.

US Centers for Disease Control and Preventionrevised 2022
Practical resource Evidence: Expert opinion 6 months–18 years
Executive function activities, from infancy to adolescence

An age-grouped collection of games and activities for practising working memory, inhibitory control and flexible thinking, with adults gradually adjusting their help.

Center on the Developing Child at Harvard University2014
Classic book Evidence: Expert opinion Ages 2–13
The Whole-Brain Child

Explains, in terms children can understand, how the developing brain works, with twelve strategies for handling big feelings.

Daniel J. Siegel, Tina Payne Bryson2011
Practical resource Evidence: Expert opinion Ages 2–18
Parenting for Lifelong Health: family materials and programmes

A collection of parenting programmes and materials, including resources for families with children aged 2–9 and young people aged 10–17. It focuses on relationships and preventing violence.

WHO and Parenting for Lifelong Health partnersProgramme collection; editions vary
Classic book Evidence: Expert opinion Ages 3–13
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk

A long-running practical guide to everyday conversations with children - acknowledging feelings, inviting cooperation and alternatives to punishment.

Adele Faber, Elaine Mazlish1980
Classic book Evidence: Expert opinion Ages 3–18
Mindset: The New Psychology of Success

Introduces the idea of a growth mindset and why praising effort and strategy differs from praising ability.

Carol S. Dweck2006
Classic reading Evidence: Expert opinion Ages 3–18
Locke’s Some Thoughts Concerning Education: habits and example

A classic work about education in the home, with an emphasis on habits, judgement, character and the example set by adults. Read it as a historical argument rather than a modern childcare manual.

John Locke1693
Guideline Evidence: Official guideline Ages 5–18
WHO guidelines on physical activity and sedentary behaviour

Recommends an average of 60 minutes a day of moderate to vigorous activity for ages 5–17, and limiting sedentary time, especially recreational screen time.

World Health Organization2020
Classic reading Evidence: Expert opinion Ages 6–18
The Aims of Education: Whitehead on knowledge and life

A classic reflection on education that challenges “inert ideas”: knowledge received but never used, tested or connected with experience. This introduction draws on a scholarly account of the book.

Alfred North Whitehead1929
Classic reading Evidence: Expert opinion Ages 6–18
Montaigne: understanding and judgement, not just recitation

An essay in Montaigne’s Essays that asks education to develop judgement through conversation, experience and examining ideas, rather than reward the repetition of other people’s words.

Michel de Montaigne16th-century essay; Cotton/Hazlitt English edition
Guideline Evidence: Official guideline Ages 9–17
Physical Development in Boys: What to Expect

What physical changes to expect in boys during puberty and roughly when they happen.

American Academy of Pediatricsupdated regularly
Guideline Evidence: Official guideline Ages 10–18
Health advisory on social media use in adolescence

Ten recommendations based on the research to date, including adult monitoring in early adolescence, protecting sleep and physical activity, and social media literacy training before use begins.

American Psychological Association2023
Guideline Evidence: Official guideline Ages 10–18
Mental health of adolescents (WHO fact sheet)

Key facts on mental health conditions in 10- to 19-year-olds, the factors that protect or put them at risk, and what helps.

World Health Organizationupdated regularly
Classic book Evidence: Expert opinion Ages 12–18
Brainstorm: The Power and Purpose of the Teenage Brain

Presents teenage intensity, risk-taking and the push for independence as part of healthy brain development, and how parents can stay connected.

Daniel J. Siegel2013